6 ways to help Reluctant Readers have positive experiences with books
If you have reluctant readers, you know that it’s very easy for them to feel like they hate books because actually reading is so challenging (and to be fair, if I had to sound out every single word, reading wouldn’t be that fun for me either).
One of the things that’s really important to me is to make sure that reading and books remain positive even during that learning curve of mastering the mechanics of reading, which can take months or years for many children.
Here are 6 simple ways to promote positive experiences with books
6 EAsy ways to help Reluctant Readers have positive experiences with books
- I Spy books. Especially for children who are surrounded by other stronger readers, whether at home or school, it can be so discouraging to not be able to read or embarrassing for everyone else to have a book they are engrossed in. An I Spy book is a great way to let reluctant readers lose themselves in a book. I’ve compiled some of our favorite I Spy books here.
- Audiobooks. Audiobooks are such a gift for reluctant readers. They can listen on a much higher level than they can read themselves (and listen to the books their peers might be able to read themselves), they get the benefits of vocabulary and understanding how sentences and stories work, and they can enjoy the fun of a book without being bogged down by physically reading. (If you’ve never used audiobooks with your child, here are some tips to get you started).
- Wordless books. I know many parents can’t stand wordless books because when you read them aloud, you have to make up the storyline. WAY more work than just reading the text for most of us. But for a child who is struggling with the words, a book that’s told entirely in images is a huge blessing! Here is a list of some of my favorite wordless books.
- Graphic novels. For many reluctant readers, one of the things that’s most intimidating is huge blocks of text. A graphic novel is much more appealing because you don’t have those endless pages of text and there is more visual context to help a reluctant reader keep track of the storyline and characters. Here are some of my favorite graphic novel series for elementary schoolers.
- Create reading time in your schedule. Of course, we hope our children will just pick up a book on their own, but for a reluctant reader, this is a BIG ask. Instead, create designated times in your week when your child will be more encouraged to pick up a book. Maybe this is bedtime, where they can stay up later reading – most kids would rather read than sleep! In our family, Family Reading Time works really well too!
- Read Aloud. This is the easiest way to keep positive associations with books. Make sure that, as you’re working on learning to read, you also keep reading aloud to them, both picture books and chapter books. The work of reading should be just a part of your home reading life, not take over all the fun and warmth of being read to by a parent. Here are some tips for making read aloud time a positive experience for everyone.
I’d love to hear how you encourage your reluctant readers!
What is the name of the book with the turkey picture your daughter is reading? I love those illustrations!
It’s Plume by Isabelle Simler!
I have found letting them buy a book that they chose (even if it is cheesy character books) gives them a proud ownership feeling, and also wanting to know how to read their special book all by themselves.
While getting my reluctant reader to love reading has been a loooooong process (including lots of quality tutoring — Saavy, and in person), one thing that helped so much was finally finding a perfect fit chapter book series. For him it was The Littles about tiny people with mouse tales. Sadly they don’t seem in circulation that much, but it was worth it for us to grab a lot on eBay. He told me he could finally read books “where something exciting happens in every chapter.” Then he started looking forward to reading them, read more and more, and thus got better, and is now truly thriving as a reader!