A Change of Clothing
Lately, I’ve been feeling tired of most personal style blogs.
I’ve been tired of MY personal style posts, frankly (and that’s not just because the most recent one involved freezing cold snow).
I’m getting less and less interested in “what I wore” kinds of posts, and more interested in working with my own current set of clothing to figure out what I like wearing most and to streamline the daily effort of getting dressed (first world problems over here, don’t I know it).
I won’t pretend it hasn’t been fun to get some free clothing over the past year or so (this shirt being one of my all-time favorites), but I’ve grown increasingly uncomfortable with just taking pictures of wearing new stuff on a weekly basis.
What I’m more interested in is working through what I already own, figuring out what’s worth keeping and what needs to go, and thoughtfully deciding what I want to add to my closet.
And then figuring out how to make what’s left in my closet work as hard as possible. (One of my all-time favorite style posts I’ve done is this one about how to wear a neon pink shirt (let’s not talk about how I accidentally burned a hole in the front with the iron last week and had to get rid of it).
Those are the kinds of things I’d be interested in reading on other blogs, and the kind of thing I want to focus on here. I don’t want to just see a parade of new clothing that makes me feel unhappy about what I have in my closet. I want to feel inspired by the things already hanging in that closet.
That’s not to say I won’t ever again work with clothing brands I like, but it won’t be for the purpose of saying “hey, look. A shirt I got for free.”
What I need is more creativity in my closet, not necessarily more stuff. (Of course, I do have a good little list of things I want to add to my summer wardrobe in my head – don’t think for a minute I won’t share it here in the next few weeks).
(This post should be sponsored by my local thrift store, which is sure to be getting a big donation from me in the next few weeks).
YES!!! So with you here. I've been on a "remix my own closet" kick, and it's actually super fun! Your outfits inspire me. 🙂
Your honesty and blogging integrity is refreshing and inspiring. 🙂
I understand how you feel. It's incredibly hard when I see the blogs that just post expensive clothing over and over again and all I can think is, I can't afford that, so I kind of don't want to look at it. Instead, I've started using other people's what I wore posts as inspiration for how I can put things together in my own wardrobe. Now, I do find things I want to buy also, but I love seeing new ways I can put things together.
That being said, I'm also in the process of massively cleaning out my wardrobe to try and get rid of the things I've given up on trying to wear.
Thank you! I've been lurking on your blog for a while, and while I don't think your outfit posts have gotten too out of hand, I've quit reading several other blogs because I can't relate to c/o posts. I like seeing how real people with real budgets and no real free clothing coming in the mail unless it's Christmas (yay Christmas!) make their closets work.
Can't wait to see what you come up with. Hey, where and for what occasion would you wear an outfit like this one you have here? Some of the style blog posts I like are the one piece multiple ways kind where bloggers post how they wear it for different occasions. I would be interested to see how you take a mom outfit to a date night outfit or church outfit or office outfit.
Ah, I'm so happy to hear this. I'll go ahead and admit that I really can't stand personal style blogs. I don't really find them inspiring (our lack of budget could have something to do with that), but I do, admittedly, find them a little vain. I know they're wildly popular and so I'm sure I'm just really behind the curve on this, but I'd rather hear how a mother deals with real-life issues with her children, or how she organizes or decorates her home, or what she cooks for her family on a budget, or what she THINKS about, rather than what she wore every day.
Love, love, love this! I can't wait to see the process in action and outfits you come up with. You've got great style so I'd be more than happy to take any closet rejects off your hands. 🙂
I have been on a similar quest lately! I stumbled upon the "Daily Connoisseur";s blog recently & it has revolutionized my stance on my wardrobe. I realize this all sounds dramatic– I'm just so excited! Her blog has helped me understand what I need to have in my wardrobe, how to always look my most put-together, and exactly what pieces to add to my wardrobe. She is a proponent of the "10 item closet" (not just 10 items, though). You can see an overview of the concept here: http://dailyconnoisseur.blogspot.com/2011/02/10-item-wardrobe-getting-started.html
and you can see an example of a seasonal (Winter 2013) wardrobe here: http://dailyconnoisseur.blogspot.com/2013/09/my-ten-item-wardrobe-fallwinter-2013.html. A few weeks back I spent a couple of hours on her blog, then spent several hours clearing out my closet, and then spent another hour or two creating an Excel spreadsheet of all the items I need in my wardrobe vs. what I currently have. Getting dressed & cultivating a chic daily wardrobe has become a hobby I'm quite excited about. 🙂
YES! Thank you! Outfits that are primarily "c/o", no matter how cute they are, just aren't relevant to me. Not that I'm upset that you get free clothing – you've worked hard to build your blog, and it IS cool that you get some stuff 🙂 – but it is refreshing to hear you say that you want to work with what you have. I think that is where most normal women find themselves.
I love the idea of working with what you have. Every time I see cute blog posts with fun outfits and I then see "c/o" I get sad because I just can't afford to keep buying new things!
Such a great post! I really like the way you run things you're doing on the blog through a bit of a critical process (and tell readers about it) – it's one of the reasons I find your blog so real and refreshing. And since I'm making my once-in-a-blue-moon comment, can I just say that your recipe for inside-out carrot cake muffins was outstanding – I am so making them again…!
Have you ever read the blog called puttingmetogether.com?
I stumbled upon it more recently and I've been hooked! It's a modern style blog that is SO realistic. She helps you "reimagine" what you already have and teaches you all kinds of things from choosing what to add to your closet, how to make one piece work in many different ways, etc. The thing that I really love about the blog is that everything is so practical. It's not $100 blouses and $300 boots. She shops mainly Old Navy and Target (as well as other practical places) so it isn't always "find something similar to this…" it's more like, "I got this at (practical store) and you can have the EXACT same one". Check it out!
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I love and appreciate this post so much. First off, your blog is one of my very favorites, so I would read it regardless of what you're posting about. Really. You're just a breath of fresh air (as cliche as that sounds). I love me a good style blog, but truthfully…I'm kind of a t-shirt and jeans sort of gal on most days. But…I found myself jotting down a whole bunch of items, shoes, makeup, etc. that I would never need or be able to afford. I love getting some ideas, but I'm with you. It's kind of great to work with what I've already got and then supplement here and there with a few favorite new pieces. You're great at what you do! I love that you're so honest with your readers. Keep it up, lady! You've got yourself a fan. But you already knew that, right? 🙂
Janssen, thank you so much for writing this post. I have been reading personal style blogs for about 4 years now, and have been blogging my own outfits for just over a year. I, too, feel weary of most personal style blogs (and I really dislike most of the "big" fashion bloggers). I recently weeded my Feedly and unsubscribed from a ton of blogs that featured new clothing pieces over and over and over again. The kinds of blogs that I love to read are smaller ones that are focused not on buying tons of new things and trying to be groundbreaking with their outfits, but on curating a closet that is remixable and perfectly suited to their lifestyle, budget, and comfort level. I'm so happy that you wrote about how this is what you're thinking about leaning towards. I love your outfits and although we have completely different body shapes and lifestyles, I find myself inspired by you and your personal style very often. As a blogger myself, my favorite kinds of posts to do are ones that stretch me to really examine and use what's in my closet instead of buying new things constantly (30×30 challenges are my favorite!). I guess what I'm trying to say is, I am eager to see where this new insight will take you in the blog. I do hope you'll continue to create outfit posts!! I'll certainly be following along 🙂